Well, there is a famous saying that goes; we don't always get what we want.
So bear with it.
Others who seem to just have it all may happen to be just plain lucky or blessed. Well, look at it this way. If one thing always go in one direction, then there would be no antonyms of things. Wouldn't that just go against the reality of life?
Sometimes mistakes are meant to just happen in an existence of one's life to teach something that merely words cant.
The feeling of pain having to have learned something the hard way makes you never forget. Makes you not to repeat the same wrongdoings again. Makes you stronger each day. Makes you even mature than you even were.
Having said that, its OK when sometimes you just fall and get hurt. its the part when you struggle in learning to stand up again that will eventually heals the wound. Once healed, that is when you will feel bliss and joy.
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ok, at this current moment, my biggest mistake is procrastination! dangggg, will i ever learn?